Divorce settlements and custody battles can stretch out for several months or even years, depending on the nature of the case. Once the proceedings have been initiated, your personal and professional life will also come under the direct scrutiny of the law. Willingly or unknowingly, you might say or do something that affects the case proceedings and the final verdict. So, here are ten pitfalls to avoid when the case is still in court. Refusing to cooperate Divorce hearings are difficult for both parties. But refusing to cooperate with your spouse to reach a mutual agreement only makes matters worse. Not hiring an experienced attorney Divorce proceedings can get complicated as time passes. So, you must have an experienced attorney on your side who has won a few cases at the least. Losing your calm Certain arguments can spiral out of control. But any inappropriate behavior in court can swing the case in favor of the aggrieved party. Badmouthing your spouse The children are the ones deeply affected by divorce proceedings and custody battles. It will only make things worse if you paint a negative picture about your spouse to swing the custody battle in your favor. Withholding information It is morally wrong and illegal to withhold information privy to both spouses caught up in a divorce settlement.